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Looking for a coach & counseler who helps you move beyond... in just a few sessions?

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Meet Anouk de Valk

Experienced, certified integrative coach/counselor and Integral Eye Movement Technique ( IEMT) specialist. No need for endless analyzing, just a concise and powerful breakthrough that frees up space in your head and heart. Feel better, lighter, brighter and more like who you were, are and supposed to be.

Transformational journey

01

Move beyond the pain of the past

To feel better you have to let go of the pain from the past. Our childhood influences who we are (or think we are) now. Each time you were overwhelmed by painful, fearful, or shocking emotions AND you were small, powerless, and alone with it, your psyche split into a childlike, withdrawn part and a survivalist part that has been building walls to protect you, eversince.  The latest insights in psychology and neurology (Gabor Mate, Bessel van der Kolk) show that even mild emotional neglect in childhood can cause this. The walls may succesfully protect you- and that's great- you but they also block you from accessing feelings of safety, connection and vitality. Through processing unprocessed emotions, stored in the limbic unconscious brain, new neural pathways are formed. This frees up space on your 'hard disk' and leaves you with a sense of relief and room to grow.

02

Integrate opposite energies

Jung states that to feel ‘whole', we must integrate the animus and anima, masculine and feminine energies within ourselves. We need to balance action, logic and outward focus (doing)  with intuition, receptivity and inward flow ( being)., the individuation proces. The anima and animus are powerful unconscious contents that can manifest themselves as difficult, even toxic, if not integrated. This can cause stubborn, difficult relationship patterns.

03

Connect to source

You’re not broken, nothing needs fixing or is wrong with you.  You can instantly feel whole by connecting to the field of energy in- and around you. Knowing and practicing how to turn on the light within your cells, makes you available to light, love, and energy. This is about remembering and embodying what you truely are: a multidimensional being having a human experience.

'Anouk will guide you, effectively and thoroughly with processing trauma’s, false beliefs,
thought patterns and with the incorporation of new, healthy patterns and beliefs. She has a
very broad working area and can provide you with psychological, neurological and esoteric
explanations about why we do what we do. 
With Anouk I was able to do in a few sessions what I have not been able to do for years with other therapists/psychologists/psychiatrists. I’ve been able to make such leaps with her support. She also helps me gather information and resources for self-examination If you WANT to improve, change and come back to the completeness you already have in you, I recommend Anouk. And I stand by it!'

Zoe, multidisciplinary artist, 21 years

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